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Pushing yourself out of your comfort zone

Have you ever thought about starting that exercise class, joining that sports team or signing up to that course, if we are all honest with ourselves, I think we all have. However, the difference is that some people keep these as a thought and others act on them.

I decided about a year ago, I am going to be one of the people that acts on the things I really want to do and yes maybe be a bit impulsive -  but so what?! These actions are the ones that push ourselves to do the things we really want to do. However, when it comes down to it, some of us are too scared to push ourselves out of our comfort zone and come up with excuse after excuse about why we didn't end up doing what we really wanted to do.

Well I finally said to myself no more and when it came down to it, pushing myself out of my comfort zone in one area of my life makes me want to do it in other areas of my life and it feels great!

It makes you start believing in popular quotes such as, "anything is possible" and "you can do/become anything you want to be." I know some people might roll their eyes at these quotes so if I can sum it up into one word, it makes you believe in opportunities.

And the opportunities you can have far outweigh the fears that you might have with pushing yourself. I guess it's a case of accepting these fears and still taking advantage of opportunities to push yourself and do all the things that deep down, you've always wanted to do.

This is what I am starting to learn anyway.

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