It has suddenly dawned on me that the most important lesson you can learn in life is to be your authentic self and accept it. Sounds so simple doesn't it? I can hear you saying to yourself now "well of course I'm going to be myself, who else would I be?" and that's exactly how I used to think. Until things didn't work out the way I imagined, until I had that 'oh' moment where what I was holding onto had finally ended and the moment I realised my job no longer satisfied me. I can't explain how important that sense of relief was after I had both those 'oh' moments, especially the first one. No longer did I have to try and hold onto something that I knew wasn't right. No longer did I have to try and be the 'best' version of myself to fit somebody's idealistic version of me. No longer did I have to put up a front - finally I had the chance to be my whole self again, finally I could take advantage of the opportunities that I ...
Have you ever thought about starting that exercise class, joining that sports team or signing up to that course, if we are all honest with ourselves, I think we all have. However, the difference is that some people keep these as a thought and others act on them. I decided about a year ago, I am going to be one of the people that acts on the things I really want to do and yes maybe be a bit impulsive - but so what?! These actions are the ones that push ourselves to do the things we really want to do. However, when it comes down to it, some of us are too scared to push ourselves out of our comfort zone and come up with excuse after excuse about why we didn't end up doing what we really wanted to do. Well I finally said to myself no more and when it came down to it, pushing myself out of my comfort zone in one area of my life makes me want to do it in other areas of my life and it feels great! It makes you start believing in popular quotes such as, "anything is possible...